I Had an Affair
August 18, 2008 |
We drove into the Rocky Mountains to a small retreat center. With our hopes high and our hearts still aching, we entered the weekend eager to heal. The days included group meetings where volunteer couples modeled good communication skills, then gave us a topic to discuss. Throughout the weekend Allen and I rehashed recent events, talked about the kids, money, forgiveness, and our future. We were able to break through some walls of hardness and spent a lot of time crying, laughing, and holding each other.
On Sunday afternoon, true healing came. Following a short church service, all the couples gathered in a circle and faced their spouses. We were going to renew our vows. The men went first. With tear-filled eyes, Allen renewed his vows to me. While he spoke I felt my heart open completely to him.
When my turn came, I swallowed hard and looked deep into his eyes as I vowed to love him for the rest of my life, in good times and bad. I knew at that moment my marriage would last. We left behind the crumpled pieces of a troubled marriage determined to rebuild a stronger foundation—this time with God at the center.
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Posted by Bonnie McMaken on August 18, 2008
Comments
I think that article was great. The key factor is as long as you see hope in your marriage, it can happen. God will continue the healing process which encompasses all of what you mentioned: the laughing, crying, and all the other emotions that go along within the healing process.
In the end, if God is seen as being the Master Healer of your marriage, there is always HOPE.
Amen,
Jennifer Taveras of Cornerstone3.net
Posted by: JENNIFER TAVERAS of CORNERSTONE3 on August 19, 2008
thanks for your exualtation. a want to have a happy marriage by the hope i have in christ.
Posted by: elizabeth on August 22, 2008
I too was in an affair, but God healed our marriage- my wife & I created a website to help other couples walk through the dark times and find God's healing touch
Posted by: joel on September 24, 2008