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October 9, 2007

Living with Less

Leading believers to embrace a simpler life.

Chad Hall is experiencing the simpler life. Intentionally. And he’s wondering what effect his quest for less has on those he leads. And he has three questions we can ask.

Everywhere I go these days, big is in. My combo meal is super-sized, my SUV is third row, and the TV of my dreams is 62-inch plasma. We Americans are big eaters, big spenders, and big wasters. Even our churches are into big, enlarging auditoriums, renting big malls and even bigger coliseums in order to accommodate big crowds and enable big growth. Like the population at large, we Christians seem to have a growing acceptance of the bigger is better credo.

But all this growth might be creating some big problems.

Our society and systems seem incapable of handling the never-ceasing expansion of want and need. Our souls are groaning and the planet is buckling beneath the collateral damage of growth. Landfills are full, the air is thick, and we cannot drink from many of our streams.

In light of our growing problems, maybe the church should give small a chance. I propose that ministry leaders are just the ones to help Christ followers exchange big for small. After all, leaders are supposed to help usher others toward something better (not just something bigger), so maybe we should start ushering folks toward living lives that are less hectic, less cluttered, less selfish, less toxic. And maybe instead of a big ad campaign advertising “LESS!” we should start living with less ourselves. Instead of just preaching it from the pulpit, maybe some personal choices would help slow down the growth, bring some sanity to our lives and make the world more livable.

Give less a chance
Our family recently decided to sell our riding mower because its impact on the environment was not offset by its necessity. Shortly after, my wife quipped, “I think we’re becoming tree-huggers.”

How had it come to this? After all, I have a strong dislike of Birkenstocks, I think Michael Moore is a narcissist, and I appreciate creature comforts every bit as much as the next guy. So why is my family choosing to push-mow the lawn, ditch the extra television, and experiment with line-drying our clothes? I’m not sure how it all began or where it’s going, but we’ve adopted a series of small questions that are redirecting our souls and may be benefiting the world around us.

Three small questions
Not to cast blame, but my journey toward less started with Randy Frazee. Prior to a conference in 2003, Randy and I had a dinner conversation during which he shared with me the somewhat radical lifestyle changes his family had made in order to make room for real relationships.
A few months later Randy wrote the book Making Room for Life.

When my wife and I read that book, we started talking and eventually began asking the question of simplification, “Even though something is commonplace, do we really need it in our lives?”

With that question in mind, all sorts of things were up for grabs: buying a house in the “right” school district, needing two incomes, cell phones, minivans, and even (hold your breath!) signing our kids up for soccer. It was like a little compact fluorescent light bulb turned on to illuminate some of the chains of conformity we had allowed to make our decisions for us. We began to see how deeply we’d bought into culture’s code of success being equated with more and more. The results of all this “more” were clutter and confusion and so we decided to simplify our lives. Removing some of the typical suburban clutter was a bit scary, but over the course of a few years, it really has begun to make room for life.

We soon discovered the joy of having fewer bills to pay, fewer trips to make, fewer calendars to juggle, and fewer agendas to manage. Lurking amid the resource of free time, we discovered the pleasure of not just having neighbors, but of knowing our neighbors. Our lives soon began to revolve more and more around the half dozen or so families we considered to be our neighbors.

We soon recognized that our role as good neighbors meant significantly other than trying to get someone to attend this or that church. As we experienced the inherent value of people and place, we began to ask, “How can we live so that when Christ returns he won’t have to work so hard to redeem our neighborhood?” This became our family’s question of significance. We want to add kingdom value to the relational, spiritual and even physical environment we inhabit. Our interactions with neighbors have gone from enjoying their company to co-laboring with them for the good of our little corner of creation. Campfires in the backyard, pizza on Sunday nights, and building a tree house all took on kingdom significance because we were contributing to making things in our acres of earth a little more as they are in heaven.

Continue reading Chad Hall's article at LeadershipJournal.net

Chad Hall is a coach/consultant living in Cary, North Carolina, and the co-author of Coaching for Christian Leaders: A Practical Guide.

Posted by UrL on October 9, 2007

Comments

Well said, Chad. For the last 10 years, my wife and I have been involved in the process of simplifying our lives and it has been tremendously freeing. A pastor's spirituality is often judged by the size of his library and I was guilty as charged. Sometimes simplifying does mean less, but a change in direction. Most of my library is now on my computer. I've given away thousands of books that I was keeping only because they looked good on my shelf and impressed people and, who knows, I might need them someday. I now buy a book, read it, and then give it away. We have used this philosophy to analyze every area of our lives, from clothing to food to lifestyle choices. And, I repeat, the result is freedom. We would rather have fewer things of better quality and invest our money and time in ways more productive for God's kingdom.

Posted by: Jim Jarman at October 9, 2007

Many of us forgot the first charge: to be good stewards of the earth. Second, Christ spoke more about money than anything else.

Sure, it's nice to have nice things. But I learned long ago that I don't need to have a 64'' TV. I don't need to have an SUV to cart around 2 kids when a small sedan will do the same. And recycling shouldn't be just the "trendy" thing to do. (Why don't churches have recycling bins, and why do they use styrofoam cups, anyway?) There are others who need more than I do, and I'm here to serve others, not just put more stuff in my belly and barns.

I'm an ecologist, not an environmentalist, which means I respect the environment, use what I buy, refuse excess and one-time-use products and disposables, and don't participate in burning down developments which endangers human lives just because rare breeds of field mice might be evicted.

The question comes down to this: Who --or what-- do you and your church serve?

Posted by: Sara at October 9, 2007

Chad, very thought provoking article. My wife and I have had several conversations about trying to simplify our lives after she heard Randy Frazee speak at a conference.

The issue that I'm trying to wrap my brain around is that a lot of the stuff that we have was purchased to help save time. We have 3 kids under the age of 7. If we got rid of our dish washer and clothes drier I don't know that we would ever finish the house work and get out to talk with our neighbors.

We could have bought a less expensive house if we had moved to a more rural area, but that would have added a half hour each way to our drives to church and work.

We could have bought a sedan that gets better milage than our SUV but that would have made trips difficult for our family of 5. It would have made carpooling, which saves time and builds relationships, impossible.

I suppose we could ditch the disposable diapers and opt for cloth... yuck!

So, while the idea of simplifying is very appealing in many cases it seems like the old "time is money" adage applies. If you have any practical wisdom concerning that, I'd love to hear more.

Posted by: Paul at October 9, 2007

I appreciate your comments Chad. I also appreciate your encouragement to start the simplification process not from the pulpit, but in our own homes.

Assuming we have begun to take those steps I wonder what the next step for leaders within the local church is. It's one thing to be benevolently known as the tree-hugging and granola-eating pastor, it seems to be another to begin inviting a community into this type of evaluation and decision making.

Thoughts?

Posted by: David at October 9, 2007

We have been "faith missionaries" for the past 17 years & when pastoring it was a pretty minimalist lifestyle (because of economics, not just ideology!) for 12+ years before. In the last 2 years we have begun a transition back to our home culture (USA).

Being a product of the "Jesus Movement" of the early 70's, the simplicity of belief and discipleship then, I was struck by how different life in the US has become. We were "on the field" from 90' to 2005.

My question in reflection about all this is... How did we (the church) get so far away from the most basic call of discipleship, "If anyone come after me, let him deny himSELF, take up his cross and follow Me."?!

For me, the "battle" isn't over "green" or "freegan", but the same battle as always... SELF. It seems to me that in the US, we are definitely losing that battle... for now. I'm in the Philippines for a couple months and enjoying the simple lifestyle we've known for many years. The difficulty is in living the same in my home culture and not being "too weird" to fit in... how backwards is that?!

Posted by: TK at October 9, 2007

What a great article. I would add giving up television and keeping trips to the movies to a minimum. We haven't just cluttered our physical world with too many things, but we have cluttered our minds with junk from the world. Imagine what the kingdom would look like if more Christians spent their leisure time reading the Bible. Maybe we would become more Christ-like. Hmm... maybe I'll take my own advice.

Posted by: Melody at October 9, 2007

Hallo! I'm new to this, but here goes. Thank you for this confirmation to something we didn't even know had a name. As we are planning on immigrating, we decided to live with less for pratical reasons. And within 6 months we've learnt to live with only the necessities in the house. As I have been giving away stuff I thought I could never live without, my invisible burden started to lift. The same happened in my spiritual life - as I suddenly had more 'free' time to spend with God, He started peeling away all the rubble in me. It all comes down to the 'back-to-basics' principle - something conforms to God's Word or it doesn't. If it doesn't, it should be a 'no-no'. Life is actually too short to live with 'gimmigs' of any kind. Thank you for this opportunity to share my story. The Lord has done marvellous things for us these past 6 months - He has always done it, but somehow our eyes have opened to see more of it. Have a blessed day in Jesus Christ!

Posted by: Ria at October 9, 2007

Excellent article. My kneejerk reaction is to say -- those are great ideas but they aren't realistic for my family right now. But I'm challenged to think a little deeper before I jump to a conclusion ...

I think often when we are challenged to give more, serve more, etc. -- e.g., when the issue of stewardship comes up -- our first reaction tends to be, "I'm sorry, we're already doing all we CAN."

We tend to say, "We CAN'T possibly do more, give more, serve more, etc." We justify our decision by telling ourselves (and everyone else who will listen) that we would like to do more, but we are already pushing ourselves to the limit. But is it really true? We feel stretched too thin. (But then you think of Jesus stretched out on the cross giving his very life away and maybe you rethink things ...)

Maybe it is legitimately true sometimes that we CAN'T do more; sometimes life just kicks us hard and we just CAN'T give anything more at the moment. However, I suspect more often then not, we are capable of far more than we think. We CAN do many things (in fact the Apostle Paul says that in Christ we can do ALL things), but we CHOOSE not to. Perhaps if we're honest, the contraction we often need is not CAN'T, but WON'T. In other words, maybe the real answer is, not, "We CAN'T do it," but rather, "We WON'T do that" -- i.e., we CHOOSE not to do it. It would require more sacrifice than we are willing to make at the moment. It would make life a bit less comfortable and convenient for our family."

So I guess with the issues you raise it comes down to answering a question of whether or not the benefits that would result from simplifying our lives are worth putting forth some additional effort beyond what we do now. If it is, then we have to CHOOSE to take some definite actions to put our words into action. As with many things in life, it's likely we CAN do more if we CHOOSE to, but only WE can make that choice.


Posted by: Alan at October 10, 2007

Wonderful! I have started developing a retreat which I hope to turn into a book on the subject of Happiness & Simplicity. It is great that our sisters and brothers in Christ are already living the Gospel life. I am now encouraged by their commitment to continue. Thank you for your efforts.

Posted by: Bruce Lacillade at October 10, 2007

decent article, but to me what's missing is the admission that sometimes it can be a godly sacrifice to have more.

what?

my in-laws were more than poor most of their lives. they work at a small Christian college, which doesn't exactly pay big bucks. years of scraping by taught them how to be good stewards, and the importance of good stewardship to God. now, pushing 50, their sons are married and out of the house, their investments are decent, and life is pretty comfortable - but they have remained good stewards. when they got satellite TV, it was for the korean students on campus to come over and watch soccer, which was something culturally very important to them and a good way for my folks to bond with the students. recently, due to God's prodding for about a year, they have further tightened their budget, taken out a second mortgage, and built and extension on their home so that they can properly host their house church of more than 60 adults and children. they were nervous about going into so much debt at their age, but listened to God's voice and the extension has truly blessed the community! God wanted them to have MORE - but not for them, for his work.

so, to be clear, i am not disagreeing with the writer of the article. i just wanted to point out that 'more' isn't always wrong.

Posted by: Dana at October 10, 2007

I found your article both thought provoking and challenging. I like the idea of a simple life, and I know the Amish of Pennsylvania and their simple life is not so simple. What struck me the most though was the idea of your home as an extension of the kingdom.
That is indeed a powerful idea. What does it mean not to engage neighbors as future church members but rather to envision your home as an extension of the kingdom. What does it look like to clear up the clutter of our lives so that we actually have tome for our neighbors. This places a more intent on the home and family, it becomes a community issue rather than just my personal walk. That makes a lot of sense to me.

Posted by: Kevin Derr at October 10, 2007

Good insights into making life simpler. Good message. But I could do without the Al Gore-esque hyperbole:

"...and the planet is buckling beneath the collateral damage of growth."

If the planet is buckling Sir, we have bigger fish to fry. Shall we colonize the moon then? Or is it buckling beneath the stress of the Apollo missions? Pardon me, but I do believe your slip is showing.

Posted by: Kerry at October 10, 2007

Chad,
Thanks for the article. I always find it interesting to see what is on your mind. As an aging baby boomer (age 54) I find that some of the things that I would have "simplified" earlier in life, I no longer consider. Not because I don't want to, but some things I am no longer able to do. Like Mickey Mantle said, if I had known I was going to live this long, I would have taken better care of myself (even some good things I used to do, like running, have come back to haunt me and my knees)!
Anyway, my question for consideration relates to the issue of time and ability. How much can we give up without losing the time we are trying to save? And how much can we give up when we are no longer able to do some of the things we used to take for granted?
Thanks again for challenging me. I a looking at this based on what we can do at this point in our lives.

Posted by: Mike Thompson at October 10, 2007

Great topic - great message needed. Our family of five lives in a 1500 sq. ft. house. We have no garage. We live on one income (tough for sure) and find room for generosity. And last year we got rid of the TV. Try it, I dare anyone reading this. Or at least just cancel the cable. Anyway, most Christians around us think we are crazy. They act like we are missing out on something. I guess I know a secret that they don't.

As for pastors and their churches who are into big... most will not be willing to change - too much power wrapped up in that position and the influence, it's addictive. Small means giving power away... it hurts, it costs personally. It will never be the "in" trend.

Posted by: Dan Whitmer at October 10, 2007

FROM THE AUTHOR...
Thanks for the many thoughtful comments to the article. Here are some of my additional thoughts and responses...

-Paul, as far as "time is money," I think that is often the case and sometimes is not the case. What's been really challenging for me is to peel back my layers of assumptions about what "convenience" really is and what the price is. When I find the need to squeeze a day for more time, it's sometimes the case that I need to drop some stuff from the schedule and just stop trying to put so much into a day. I repeat: it's a challenge! Man, oh man is it a challenge for me.

-David, my only thoughts on how a pastor can take practical steps in helping a congregation consider these issues are twofold. First, I really don't discount the power of the pulpit. I think a pastor's role is to shepherd the flock via the preaching ministry - especially if it's first lived out by the pastor. Second, I think a more potent approach is to bring up the topic in those pastoral conversations when counseling and coaching parishioners. I think the issues of simplicity, significance and stewardship weave into most of the stressors we face in life - so a pastor can help parishioners take a systemic view of their life and recognize how clutter and confusion lead to all sorts of unhealthy chaos.

-Melody... Well said! I think I'll take your advice and turn off the tube, grab a book and invite God into the freed-up space.

Speaking of books...

-Jim... I reckon you've somehow listened in on the conversations between me and my wife over the past month. She has accurately pointed out for me that my cases and shelves of books is not good for my soul. And you NAIL what the real issue is for me: pride. I'll be visiting the local library to make a donation this weekend. Thanks for sharing the insight.

Posted by: Chad Hall at October 10, 2007

Much of what Chad offers is good--for Chad. We need to be somewhat careful in every "lifestyle" decision we make. The other edge of this double edge sword is the pride that crops up from those that are doing it "better." And when is enough? A 32" TV (but you are watching the same shows?) No soccer for your kids (but they are bored, not interacting with kids outside their church?) If I want to get to know my neighbors I have our kids play soccer, lacrosse and basketball with them--now we have something to talk about. Or I watch some (only some) of the shows they watch and then we have a starting point.

Finally, there isn't only the "culture" of big out there--certainly it does bow down to the idols of materialism and importance through accumulating and activity. But certainly growing now is the culture of "less." In its most hardcore form it places personhood on the earth and anthropomorphizes animals. Let's be critical in our thinking about the pluses and minuses about both and most importantly let's be "Christianly" in our thinking about both.

Posted by: Mike at October 10, 2007

Dana's comments are right on. Sometimes it's not less, it's what's best. Stewardship is "what is the best investment of my resources for the sake of the kingdom?" Will that attitude not also cover death to self? Sometimes it will mean sacrifice; sometimes, like Dana's parents, it means enlargement for the purpose of the Kingdom.

Posted by: DaveAlan at October 10, 2007

FROM THE AUTHOR #2...

Another round of insightful and interesting comments that I thought I'd respond to...

- Dana and Dave... best does beat less, of course. I can just imagine "less" becoming the new "more" and everybody striving to have unhealthful small amounts of relationships and possessions and the like. Then we'd all be off the other end of the proverbial spectrum. Discernment seems to be the key.

- Kerry... not sure exactly what to make of your comment, but I think you may be inferring that I hold some left-leaning ("Al Gore") position that I let slip into the article. Maybe not, maybe you just meant my language was overblown. I'll accept the indictment of my language and work to improve. I'll strongly refute any notion that I share any Gore-ish perspective. This may be a topic for another article, but I have sincere doubts about Gore's opinions about global warming. I'll let you read the red between those lines. :)

- Kevin... I think your terminology about the home being an extension of the kingdom is far clearer and more precise than I put it. And really, you have nailed what, for me, is the heart of this issue. Thanks for saying what you said and saying it so well.

- Mike Thompson... I hope to see you at SPE in November with Dallas Willard in Hickory. Will you be there??

Posted by: Chad Hall at October 11, 2007

I really liked this article. This is where God is challenging me right now. We have begun to see ways in which we can simplify and make room for the life that Christ lives through us in our family.

I agree with everyone saying that just because you live with less doesn't automatically mean that you are following Christ. It's about who owns your heart, Christ or anything else. The one thing that I do notice though is how Jesus tells people multiple times to sell what they've got and give it to the poor. Where does that leave us?

As we continue to talk through this apparently hot button issue (why do we get so heated about this?) we have to continue to have a spirit of humility. I think the author did a good joob of raising awareness of what he and his family are doing in response to a change that God has called them to make. It gets really dangerous when you start accusing him of things that aren't necessarily true or are simply childish ("your slip is showing" implying that because he's chosen to obey Christ in this area of his life, he is less of a man, seriously). God's word does talk about creation groaning and waiting for redemption. That fact is tough to debate. And I think we need to be careful of taking such strong sides as if our side is the only way or as if Al Gore is not capable of making some really good points (maybe the truth is just a little too inconvenient for us and that's why we don't like it).

Anyway, I really enjoy the discussion over the topic. I just bring these points for further discussion and healthy banter.

Keep working out your salvation with fear and trembling...

Posted by: Aaron at October 16, 2007

As a child in the '50s, I knew older Christians who defined "worldliness" in terms of drinking alcohol, wearing fashionable clothes and (for women) wearing make-up. This short-sighted view contributed to making Christianity seem bleakly judgmental.

Chad, your article is, in summary, about a realistic rejection of worldliness. We all let the world squeeze us into its mould (Rom 12:3), and it is vital for Christians to resist this pressure.

An amazed journalist, wrote some years ago about a famous Australian artist, Pro Hart, a Pentecostal Christian. She remarked on his small environmental footprint, despite his lack of interest in environmental concerns. She came to understand that his lifestyle was a consequence of his aim to live in accordance with his faith, even if it was unfashionable. It was a great tribute, and an endorsement by a secular observer of what Christianity can do if someone truly puts it into practice, even without seeing how one person's life fits into the bigger picture.

Posted by: Peter Green at October 16, 2007

You say that: "Landfills are full, the air is thick, and we cannot drink from many of our streams." Nope. Nope. Nope.

Landfills are not full, indeed in many places wholesale landfill fees are falling because of oversupply. Air quality, in the America that you live in has been getting dramatically better, emissions falling 30% between 1995 and 2005. As to not being able to drink from streams, the biggest new threat from streams is coliform bacteria from wildlife which have exploded with the revival of their habitat.

Any honest evaluation of the American environment must acknowledge dramatic improvement. While your overall thesis is laudable, we simplify not because of the environmental impact, but because we want to be more like Christ.

Quick question: If I could offer you the material abundance of a millionaire without any environmental impact, would that make it right? Tying behavior done for Christ to dubious claims about the environment damages your credibility and your witness.

Posted by: Bill at October 24, 2007

Hi Chad,
I like what you have to say but I have a question. How do some of us who are living the simple life try to stay content when we watch our pastors and other staff of the church keep getting bigger and better toys? I try not to let the envy thing get a hold of me but sometimes it's hard. We drive around old vehicles. We live in a mobile home and have for 15 years. I bring in a supplemental income just to make ends meet. All of this while we watch our pastors buy $300,000 houses and drive around new SUV'S.
I don't like my focus to be on that and that when I put money in the offering plate it should be given joyfully...but to be honest knowing that some of that goes to pay for those houses while I live in a "trailer" kind of makes me a little less than joyful when I tithe and lately I've been putting missions on the envelope.

Posted by: IG at November 1, 2007

I think Bill should find another church, if that is what the clergy are up to.

Posted by: Shauna Sowga at November 26, 2007