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July 28, 2009Corrupt Clergy and Forgiveness
Cases like last week's organ-brokering scandal in New Jersey leave no room for cheap grace.
Christine A. Scheller
In New Jersey this week, the news is corruption. Forty-four people, including three mayors, a state assemblyman, and five rabbis, have been arrested on various charges, including bribery and organ brokering. Shocking, even for New Jersey, many say. Ho hum, others sigh. For victims, the news is as fresh as an unexpected slap in the face. Imagine being the guy or girl who finds out that a rabbi was going to pocket $150,000 on the sale of your kidney. Imagine being one of those who learns he already has.
As Christians, we're fond of moral equivalence statements designed to inspire us to forgiveness. "There by the grace of God go I" is one. "The ground is level at the foot of the Cross" is another. I hate moral equivalence arguments. They impede the ability of victims to truly forgive. In this case, it is not the same thing for an impoverished father to sell a kidney to feed his family as it is for a member of the clergy to buy it for $10,000 while charging a desperate patient's family $160,000. One behavior, unchecked, may lead to another, but we empathize with the desperation and rightly deride the exploitation.
Still, corruption threatens its victims' souls nearly as much as its perpetrators'. The path of least resistance is to give in to bitterness and self-absorption, especially when expressions of anger at the injury or injustice draw condemnation from friend and foe alike. When our fellow believers hold up as models the Amish who immediately "forgave" the deranged Nickel Mines killer, for example, victims struggling with anger feel doubly violated. As one journalist discovered, even for the Amish, forgiveness is a complicated process.
In my own journey with forgiveness, the most helpful writer I've encountered is theologian Miroslav Volf. I read his book Free of Charge: Giving and Forgiving in a Culture Stripped of Grace after being victimized by corrupt clergymen. Volf writes, "Condemnation is not the heart of forgiveness. It's the indispensable presupposition of it." Now there's a statement I can embrace.
Ah, but not so fast. He goes on to explain: "Forgiveness cuts the tie of equivalence between the offense and the way we treat the offender. I don't demand that the one who has taken my eye lose his eye or that the one who has killed my child by negligence be killed. In fact, I don't demand that he lose anything. I forgo all retribution. In forgiving, I absorb the injury - the way I may absorb, say, the financial impact of a bad business transaction."
Don't misinterpret Volf, though. In his view, systems of discipline are consistent with forgiveness. Criminals should go to jail. Offending clergymen should be defrocked. Our laws rightly prohibit murder, not anger, even though Jesus said its source is the human heart. Volf delineates between discipline and retribution, stating that we "ought to forgive rather than punish because God in Christ forgave."
Having recently served 18 months for a bribery conviction, the former mayor of my New Jersey town, like these others, should be welcomed back into the community. He should not, in my view, hold public office any time soon. Neither should those corrupt clergymen who victimized my church communities still be in pastoral ministry. Where does that leave me?
Volf writes, "Forgiveness places us on a boundary between enmity and friendship, between exclusion and embrace. It tears down the wall of hostility that wrongdoing erects, but it doesn't take us into the territory of friendship." He asks, "Should those who forgive stay in this neutral zone?
"If they did," he answers, "forgiveness would be the generous act of a person who wishes to stay away from the offender. Often that's all we can muster the strength to do, and all that offenders will allow us. Yet at its best, forgiveness hopes for more."
Yes, it hopes for more. It hopes for repentance, reconciliation, and restoration. It hopes for loving reunion and very often doesn't get it. So, how do we love the offender who keeps on offending? Do we "love the sinner and hate the sin"? Does anyone other than God really hate sin? How about Love the sinner, obstruct the sin, uphold the good, protect the innocent? Will that work?
Posted by Katelyn Beaty on July 28, 2009 8:51 AM
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'If they did,' he answers, 'forgiveness would be the generous act of a person who wishes to stay away from the offender. Often that’s all we can muster the strength to do, and all that offenders will allow us. Yet at its best, forgiveness hopes for more.'
'Yes, it hopes for more. It hopes for repentance, reconciliation, and restoration. It hopes for loving reunion and very often doesn’t get it. So, how do we love the offender who keeps on offending? Do we “love the sinner and hate the sin� Does anyone other than God really hate sin? How about Love the sinner, obstruct the sin, uphold the good, protect the innocent? Will that work?'
I would think that anyone who has been wounded would be able to identify with the struggle expressed here. I heard about the corruption charges in NJ with some shock -- especially that there should be clergy involved. But, it didn't pluck my personal heartstrings, in part, I believe, because it doesn't hit close to home with my own woundedness.
However, I loved the idea of an expansion beyond the platitude 'love the sinner; hate the sin.' I say platitude because I believe that this statement skips over the condemnation of the perpetrator and the woundedness of the victim / survivor. With God's help, a wounded human may get there, but there's alot of anger and condemnation and hurt and grief between the injury and the statement which the platitude ignores.
I would, from my own experience, take the restatement a little bit further: Love the sinner, love the victim, obstruct the sin, uphold the good, support the victime, and protect the innocent?
Posted By: LawGirl | July 28, 2009 4:04 PM
Well done, LawGirl.
Posted By: alison | July 28, 2009 6:27 PM
LawGirl,
I was thinking ... "defend and protect the vulnerable," but caved to my own sense of word rhythm. Another form of corruption, eh?
Posted By: Christine A. Scheller | July 28, 2009 10:06 PM
I would only add to LawGirl's formulation -- empower (without blaming) the victim. Depending on the nature of the crime, this could include empowering the victim to defend herself, to stand up for herself, to question authority, to value her independence, or to reject blame for being victimized.
"Defending and protecting" -- that just leaves the same mismatched power relationship that allowed the abuse/corruption/etc. in the first place.
Posted By: Christian Lawyer | July 29, 2009 8:06 AM
It is equally as important to hold the sinner responsible as it is to forgive them. I think.
Posted By: alison | July 29, 2009 9:49 AM
Empowerment is, of course, the ideal. Sometimes, however, victims are unwilling or unable to contribute to their own empowerment and those with influence or power have no choice but to respect, protect, defend, expose, obstruct, etc.
Posted By: Christine A. Scheller | July 29, 2009 1:54 PM