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August 27, 2010

Simplicity: It's Complicated

When trying to buy and spend less only breeds anxiety, maybe it's time to check motives.

The New York Times recently profiled an Oregon couple who winnowed their possessions down to 100 things, giving away most of what they owned and cozying up in a 400-square-foot apartment. The article discussed new (read: more cautious) spending patterns, spurred by the recession but potentially having long-term staying power. Americans are investing in experiences and leisure activities such as vacations and concerts, which contribute to their happiness in a way that the latest electronic gadget does not. “ ‘It’s better to go on a vacation than buy a new couch’ is basically the idea,” says Elizabeth Dunn of the University of British Columbia.

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The emphasis on owning less relates to the Christian virtue of simplicity. In Matthew 6:19–20, Jesus reminds us to store up treasures in heaven, not on earth, while the parable of the rich fool (Luke 12:16–21) warns against preoccupation with saving for future comfort. Biblical examples of giving away wealth and possessions abound, from Old Testament teachings on tithing to Jesus telling the rich young man to “sell all that you have and give to the poor” (Mark 10:21).

Should Christians hop on the 100-things bandwagon? Does material simplicity — spending and owning less — always lead to spiritual and emotional enrichment?

In my 20s, I attended a Washington, D.C., church that had rigorous membership requirements, including a minimum 10 percent tithe. I worked for low-paying nonprofits in an expensive city, so tithing made a big difference in what was left once rent and groceries were covered. Instead of embracing forced simplicity, I resented it for making even the most mundane purchases occasions for anxiety and guilt. I remember standing in a drug store aisle contemplating whether it was irresponsible to buy new pantyhose. Scrutinizing every purchase didn’t free me from material concerns to make room for spiritual ones. It just made me cranky. And it didn't feel like freedom to agonize over a $4 pair of pantyhose.

Our five-person family used to live in a tiny five-room house, which required unrelenting commitment to efficient storage, scrutinized shopping lists, and regular cleaning. It required far more work, and fostered more anxiety, than life in our larger home now. Living in a consumer society can make simplicity complicated, as we navigate culturally entrenched gift-giving rituals, or accommodate expectations that we dress a certain way for work. I struggle with how to foster simplicity without our kids resenting us for being tightwads.

Jesus said that he came that we might have life, and have it abundantly. Abundant life — that’s really what we’re after, isn’t it? Do our spending, saving, and giving contribute to an abundant life, or to resentment, anxiety, covetousness, and a consuming concern with how much we have or don’t have? Perhaps what Christians should strive for is abundant simplicity.

Abundant simplicity does not mean agonizing over every purchase or adhering to an arbitrary number of possessions. If someone gives the 100-things couple a gift, do they start mad mental calculations to identify what they will give away to accommodate the new item? Do they say, “Sorry, but your gift puts us over our limit”? If they ever have children, will they be able to graciously accommodate the stuff that inevitably accompanies kids — the goody bags and found objects and favorite stuffed animals? Gratitude, contentment, and acceptance of life as it is, even when it does not conform to our preferences, are also virtues.

Abundant simplicity is more about paying attention — to what we want and need; what we have and buy; what we spend, save, and give; and our relationship with our bank accounts and material objects. When do money and things enhance our life, and when do they tempt us to envy, anxiety, fear, pride, or selfishness?

Simplicity doesn’t always mean spending less. We might spend more on well-made clothes that fit and flatter, for example, rather than filling our closets with bargain-rack finds that we rarely wear. Simplicity doesn’t always mean having less. I have many possessions that provide daily satisfaction, such the nearly new leather loveseat I bought from some neighbors who moved, and that has quickly become my favorite writing spot. Other possessions — a well-equipped kitchen, a car with a power driver’s seat, multiple swimsuits for pool workouts — allow me to care for myself and my family well by accommodating my physical disability. Could I live without these possessions? Absolutely, but I’m glad I don’t.

The observation that money spent on experiences contributes to happiness also rings true. My daughter’s horseback riding lessons or our family vacations to Cape Cod are luxuries, but they offer my kids some of the moments they will remember forever — how it felt the first time the horse broke into a trot, the drowsy contentment of slipping between sandy sheets with the damp, salty air blowing in through the screens. That feels like abundance to me.

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Ellen, As usual, I appreciate your insights. I know that we could live more simply, and there are ways in which I hope we will continue to do so and teach our children to do so. But I also want to experience the abundant life you write about, and I want to spend our time and money in a way that blesses many. Sometimes that makes life a little more complicated.
Thanks again, Amy Julia

For some reason this blog post seems like a disengaged apology for someone's lifestyle then a substantive wrestling with both the article and Jesus teachings on material possessions. I don't mean to be too critical but it kind of rings of "cheap grace" instead of the "cost of discipleship." I was kind of hoping for a more substantive engagement and struggle with the issues raised.

Simplicity is a complex issue that covers finances, work, time, ministry, etc. Yes, we can get too narrow and almost make a God out of frugality and shabby clothes as a badge of honor. But what we need is a balance between the mindless consumerism, extravagance and greed that has permeated society and the church and the Lord's contentment not based on our social status or bank accounts.

A Christian author from a very wealthy east-coast family (sorry I don't remember his name) once wrote that everything we own can either be a tool or an idol. That way of looking at it has helped me sort through life's stuff many times.

Sorry, but this article can really be read as a possibility to keep on doing what we're doing in an overconsuming Western world. "Simplicity doesn’t always mean spending less." You're right, but most of the time it does. The same is true for your remark "Simplicity doesn’t always mean having less."

On the other hand I really appreciate your nuanced view and I think you're on track, as long as it doesn't create some self-deception: that we think we live a simple life, but we're actually just big consumers.

Thanks for getting by brains waking up here on a European morning :)
Anton

I knew in writing this that it might come across as justification for a consumer lifestyle. And perhaps it is that...I can't claim to have completely pure motives, being human and all! But please keep in mind that in an 800-word blog post one cannot completely explain all the background behind the examples and viewpoint. I've been struggling with Christian simplicity for two decades, I am still struggling with it, and this is but a tiny, tiny glimpse of where my thinking is after all those years. I could list all the ways our family bucks the suburban consumer milieu we live in (there are many), the ways that my physical disability makes certain spending and possessions absolutely necessary (there are many), examples of people I've known living frugal, simple lifestyles whose dogmatism and lack of hospitality and acceptance of others have been alienating (there are many), and examples of people whose simplicity is inspiring and life-giving (there are many). But see, I just used a few dozen words just saying all that! Blog posts are intended to start a discussion, not provide all the answers. Thanks for reading and responding!

Simplicity also doesn't mean an easy life. God never called Christians to have it easy. That means he didn't call us to make ourselves as comfortable as possible, and it also means that he didn't call us to avoid sacrifice and struggling to do what is right.

Abundant life means life in Christ. In Christ, we can find joy in sacrificing and in giving up the things that make it harder for us to draw close to him. If we do not find abundant life in doing what is right, in giving to others, in avoiding making ourselves too comfortable and misusing what God has given us, that is sin on our part.

Think about the struggle people have just to survive around the world and even in our own country. For us to say that we will not give our excess to them because it is to difficult, because it puts complications in our lives strikes me as selfish and unChristian. Yes, I struggle over purchases because I know that the things I buy were made by people who often have to struggle themselves just to feed their families and remain alive.

This struggle, I think, is a good thing. It is good to struggle and agonize over the suffering of others and to question my part in that struggling. I live easy only because I have been gifted with so much by God, but that easy living is often the very cause of the suffering of others. Yes, I thank God for the blessings he has given me, but I do not ever want to be completely comfortable with them. I do not ever want to forget the suffering of others who made my easy life possible.

Thanks for this post. I thought it was spot on. We have to be reminded that holiness can never be accomplished through a formula. Living simply will look different, family to family, person to person.

Ellen,
Thank you for the challenge of living a life of "abundant simplicity" and paying attention to the fruits of resources that the Lord graciously brings to our lives. As members of Gods family, we are all called to, and will be accountable for, responsible stewardship for every good and perfect gift the Father gives us.

I can't help but notice how the Lord distributes resources so differently among his people, and how prone I am to compare what he's given me to that which he's given someone else. I benefit from the reminder you gave to pay attention to my relationship with the money and possessions I've been entrusted with. I need to continually ask God to show me and how they can best enhance the reign of Christ in my life and in the rest of his world.

Thank you for this article. I participated in a year-long volunteer program emphasizing simplicity and learned a lot. I can say that I went into the experience with a lot of idealism and developed a lot of anxiety attempting to embrace extreme simplicity; eventually I became depressed. I still aspire to live simply, but have found a freeing balance that I didn't have before. (The pantyhose for me was a $4 box of cereal that I loved.) Great points raised--it is a topic God calls us to continually engage with and discern his guidance.

"Yes, we can get too narrow and almost make a God out of frugality and shabby clothes as a badge of honor."

There was an article on CT a while ago regarding Jesus and whether he wore "designer" clothes. The robe He wore was seamless, which I understand was expensive. So Jesus didn't wear shabby clothes.

Interesting post. I agree that a quest to avoid materialism shouldn't lead to an obsession with frugality and anxiety over buying necessities. It's so hard to find a balance between buying what you "need" and maybe a few things you want without having money and things take over your time and thoughts. I personally am not a fan of mandatory tithing, pledge cards, etc. My preference would be cash in the plate so no one but my Hubby and God know how much we are putting in the offering-whether it's more or less than 10%!!

The 100 things concept seems very gimmicky to me, like something I heard about on NPR where a woman tried to rid herself of any consumption of plastic, and in the end felt guilty for even driving her car to work. The difference with Christian simplicity is that it is rooted in Christ, not in an arbitrary number (why 100? why not 110?)

I consume less plastic than I used to because I don't like the idea of being wasteful and ditching disposable pudding cups by the ton just because it's convenient. I do this not to please Al Gore but because I take my Christian stewardship serious, and also I feel called to be an example of a recycler who is not a nutty "tree hugger."

There's a lot we don't need, but instead of limiting our items to a number, let's give freely to people - things we don't use, our money, our time, or through prayer. It's about focusing on God and the calling on our lives rather than sorting our consumer lives according to made up guidelines.

Years ago I decided to lead a minimalist lifestyle. Purchases were based on need and not on impulse. For office wear I limit my wardrobe to autumn colors and match them with brown or black. My profession demands that I look good and up-to-date and so I invested on really good skirts/shirts/pants that I can mix-match and a lot of accessories and creativity. The motive defines the attitude of embracing a simple lifestyle. I want to share whatever God has given me with those who have less. I have been living this lifestyle for years now. Recently God has blessed me with a job that pays a LOT more than my previous one. I continue to have the same lifestyle - and give more. I am happy.

I happen to "know" (in an online, blog-in-the-same-niche, Twitter sort of way) the lady in the NYTimes article. A couple of things I would say:

a) You're absolutely right that RowdyKittens-style simplicity may not be right for everyone, and she would say so herself. Also, as far as I can tell, she is not a Christ-follower, so...

b) You should check out Joshua Becker's website at www.becomingminimalist.com. He's a youth pastor and father of three in suburbia who writes about "rational minimalism"

c) How to work out the spiritual discipline simplicity in our lives is a very personal thing, and I think we need to be careful not to make a legalistic list in either direction (meaning not "100 Things is too far and unresonable" or "You're not simple unless you have 100 Things")

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