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February 8, 2012The Power of Choice in 'Downton Abbey'
The British World War I drama, depicting a world away, teaches me how to live in my own.
On the last episode of the wildly popular PBS drama Downton Abbey, one character tells another: "You've broken the rules, my girl, and it's no use pretending they're easily mended."
The popular British import, set in World War I, portrays the aristocratic Crawley family and the cadre of cooks, maids, and butlers who tend to them, in all their relational and class-based drama. The show is all about rules, whether bowing to class structure or honoring commitments from the past. The rules present the extraordinary obstacles in this show . . . except that they’re not so extraordinary, really, and that’s one of the many reasons this show works.
Downton's surprise success is often chalked up to an unrealistic sense of nostalgia over an intriguing and lavish lifestyle at the turn of the 20th century, borne out by the inevitable market surge of "inspired by" books, clothes, food, and jewelry. (Not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's easy to understand why this show is considered a soap opera that appeals mainly to women.)
But my favorite aspect of Downton is its emphasis on humans’ agency and accountability despite social and economic barriers. The characters are never excused for their choices by circumstance, class, gender, time period, or even the unfairness of the rules to which they so tightly cling.
Part of Downton’s popularity is its resonance with Jane Austen’s books and the movies inspired by them. As in most Austen adaptations, the lives of the heroines in Downton--women dress for dinner and idle away the day--demand improvement. The daughters cannot inherit their family's estate (a common theme of Austen’s), and society demands that they aspire to marry money because they cannot make their own and must preserve their family’s station.
But in many ways, a more apt comparison for the show might be the popular sitcom The Office (now in its eighth season), which nevertheless portrays the choices of characters who are resigned to work within a frustrating system rather than determined to rail against it. The world of Downton revolves around the stewardship of the Earl of Grantham, much like the corporate office, where the boss dictates the environment.
On Downton, both “upstairs” (titled) and “downstairs” (servant) characters' responses--to circumstances, to others--dictate their situations more than the obstacles or the attitude of the supervisors (particularly the earl but also the butler and housekeeper), who wield great power over the lives of other characters.
For example, one of the earl's daughters, Edith, turns bitter and unsympathetic as she rehearses her tightly held record of suffered slights and limitations. And the maid O'Brien, so certain in her expectations of mistreatment and indifference, is ruthless in her determination to do unto others before they do unto her. The earl’s eldest daughter, Mary, makes a mistake so shocking (proving that after all, she is no Austen heroine!) in raging against her social structure that it looms over her attempts to find happiness throughout the second season.
Downton might be a melodrama, but it is one where the characters are allowed to truly stumble.
In the second episode of season 2, which began airing in the United States last month, the earl’s youngest and most proactive daughter Sybil tells Edith, "There's something you do better than the rest of us. Find out what it is and do it. It's doing nothing that is the enemy."
It is a rallying call for personal agency.
Until that point, Edith had accepted that her circumstances, or the comparison between herself and her sisters (Edith is “the other one,” as Saturday Night Live put it in a recent skit), defined who she would be; she effectively chose apathy. But similarly, Mary, who knows what she wants, feared losing it and so dithered from fear and lost it anyway.
These mistakes provide simple lessons, though hardly trite since many women today are facing them. Many of us feel locked into situations where we are unhappy, either at work, in romance, in our family structures, or in our churches. We rage against “the system,” perhaps, against the attitudes of people around us, the opinions of those whom we care about, or against our own wants and fears. But our circumstances matter less than our attitude: our response to the obstacles we encounter. Whether we work inside the home or out of it, whether we are married or single, surveys and stories deal with the fact that women (and men) call themselves “unhappy” or “unsatisfied” with life.
Surprisingly, for me, Downton is a timely, and perhaps refreshingly down to earth, reminder that apathy is also itself a choice, and it’s just another name for indifference. The Bible has some choice things to say about indifference: the quality between hot and cold that God spits out. Jesus died to ensure our right to choose--mainly to choose life in him--and that is an inheritance (in Downton it would be called an entail) that we are given each and every day.
Watching (okay, greedily consuming) the first season of Downton, I frequently compared myself to the characters and concluded which ones I did not want to be. The undesireable characters were not the servants or the lovelorn, but those who faced with difficulty became spiteful or caustic.
Sometimes the only choice left when faced with obstacles is to continue holding fast to our faith. That's defined as an act of patience in the Bible: a choice, not a code word for passivity.
Fortunately, God’s promises are not just a riveting storyline. (One of my favorites: where the spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.) There is much more security to our faith in them than in believing Mary and Matthew will find their way back together.
Though I totally believe they will, and I can’t wait to watch.

Comments
Great synopsis and comparison of a fun TV show, Alicia. Nicely done. I like this line a lot: "Downton might be a melodrama, but it is one where the characters are allowed to truly stumble."
God does the same for us, I think. But, as you point out, life with him is so much more than a mere melodramatic plot. Even though he allows our stumblings, we are also promised that "he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." (Phil. 1:6.) So I may stumble, but he will see me through!
Cheers,
Tim
Posted By: Tim | February 8, 2012 11:20 AM
Good post. One of the endearing things about the show has been its unpredictability, especially when compared to most other soaps. So, in a way, I hope Mary and Matthew don't get together even though it seems they must.
Also, I understand your take on comparisons to "The Office" but I really see absolutely no other comparisons from quality on down !
Posted By: pete | February 8, 2012 3:28 PM
Alicia,
What a brilliant analysis. I really appreciate it. You're right; our attitudes matter whatever our circumstances. We shouldn't cave to passivity or apathy. I am wondering if there is a way, and I think there is, to rail or protest against evil structures and circumstances but not ruin oneself or others? People all over the world do it in the most difficult and vile of situations.
Posted By: Marlena | February 8, 2012 3:48 PM
I think mainly each character is trying to find purpose in his or her life regardless of station. Lady Edith finally let go of some of her bitterness when she found purpose in serving the convalescing soldiers.
Posted By: AC | February 8, 2012 4:28 PM
Nice, but I just watch for the awesomeness that is Maggie Smith!
Posted By: Tammy | February 8, 2012 4:39 PM
Thanks for such a thought-provoking article on an entertaining BBC drama. I'm planning to feature your article on my blog on Saturday as an example of media literacy.
Posted By: Laura | February 8, 2012 5:11 PM
I know from Facebook and Twitter posts that both writers, Anne Rice and Sue Monk Kidd LOVE Downtown Abbey. I so need to watch this, but having so much to catch up on, I dare not start it unless I have the time. I know it will capture my attention and my time!!
Reading your post makes me want to watch it even more.
Posted By: Pam Hogeweide | February 8, 2012 7:48 PM
Great piece, Alicia!
(I have to second Tammy's sentiment. Dame Maggie RULES!)
Posted By: Gina | February 9, 2012 9:33 AM
Shoot, I know a lot of men who are Downton fans. Oh, Lady Violet's one-liners are the best!
Posted By: P. | February 9, 2012 2:50 PM
I just wanted to say my husband and my dad absolutely love Downton Abby. :)
Posted By: Tara | February 11, 2012 7:32 AM
- How is Matthew related to the three sisters?
- Why does he call the Dowager Countess "Cousin Violet" but the three sisters call her "granny?"
- Who was the mysterious disfigured soldier?
- Would he or Matthew have inherited the fortune had Lady Mary not had her accident?
Posted By: Roger Agness | February 15, 2012 7:20 AM